Creators Corner

Creator’s Corner: Eric Manix

Oh man.  What a week to be alive.  It has been nothing but bedlam in the world of the Quill.

I shall go into greater detail tomorrow.

For now, it is time to relish in one of the greater porpoises… purposes of the Quill and my current career trajectory.

I want to use my platform to uplift other creators like myself.  It’s wonderful that I’m in a position where I can offer my something of my own and show off the work and lives of others to those who stop by.  I love that aspect of writing: Community.

Community is something we take for granted, and it’s such a powerful and necessary thing for our well being.

So, without further soap box speechifying, I give you The Unsheathed Quill’s first Creators Corner:  Eric Manix (@thebobbycrogan)

Quill:  Good afternoon everyone!  Let’s start with the basics.  Eric, could you tell us a bit about yourself?  Who you are, what you do, that sort of thing.  Oh, and please share a bit about your family!  You post such wonderful photos of them on twitter all the time, I’d love to know more about them.

7) ONLY IF YOU WANT TO AND ARE COMFORTABLE: Do you wish to share about your experience with melanoma? 8) Last question: What do you look forward to most with your life right now?

Eric: My name is Eric Manix. I’m a husband and father of two amazing little girls. I’m the closing manager at a comic book store. I’m super outgoing and yet I have extreme social anxiety. I know the two don’t seem to mix and well, lol, they don’t.

Quill: Aha!  The closing manager of a comic book store.  I wondered where the love of comics and nerdy things arose.  I used to spend all my time at a store called The Gatekeeper in Topeka, where comics and Magic: The Gathering were had in equal measure.  Speaking of games, do you have a favorite board game or hobby game?  Or a video game perhaps?

Eric: I don’t have a favorite board game. I’m not that into table top gaming. I talk too much and I’m easily distracted so I’m not fun. I do play games with my kids. My seven year old is a big table top gamer so I imagine if you asked again in a couple years I’d give you a different answer. As far as video games I love rpg’s and survival horror. The Resident Evil series are some of my all time favorite games. The last game I beat was Alien: Isolation and it was fucking brilliant.

Eric: I became a fan of podcasts during my years as a care provider. I had a love of time on my hands taking clients out on walks and stuff like that. I tired of my music quickly so I began to research shows. I found myself subscribed to a ton of comic book and video game shows. My friends from View from the Gutters, an excellent book club style comic book show, asked me to join them as a host. Andrew Chard, my friend from the shop was a founder of that show and would later become a co-host on Out of the Fridge with me. Chard had already told them I was in but they felt the need to quiz me on my geek knowledge. It was pretty funny seeing them try to twist me up. Of course I knew my shit so I was in. I wasn’t able to commit to the show full time due to my work and family life but it was a huge honor to be on one of my favorite shows the handful of times I could make it. I started Out of the Fridge with Kelly Okler and Alison Poppy, more friends from work. They had started a blog to get themselves to branch out and try new comics and the next step was a podcast. With my recent experience with views I was initially someone they bounced ideas off of. Eventually they asked my to join them and I was totally flattered. We recorded after hours at the shop for several months with our good friend Jamie Coe recording on us on his amazing pro rig. Chard offered to let us use his studio so that we could be more consistent with our release schedule. I think about an episode and a half went by before Chard joined Out of the Fridge as a full member.

Photography was always something I was interested in. Honestly the only thing holding be back was my confidence in myself. My father and my Aunt Vickie are both amazing photographers so I did grow up around it. I started taking my camera to the comic conventions we would cover for Out of the Fridge, initially as an afterthought. I figured we could throw some photos up on the Facebook page and Instagram. I quickly found that I was really into it and my desire for a better camera and the ability to use it grew rapidly. I’ve been serious about photography for about two years now.
Quill: That’s amazing.  So your desire to entertain those you cared for grew into an opportunity to appear upon different shows, and grew into something that you’ve become well known for.  I can’t imagine that it was anything other than a ton of work and sacrifice to produce so much.  I’ve also heard that there have been some difficulties and troubles that you’ve gone through with various aspects of your career both in podcasting and in photography.  I know it’s a hard question to answer, but do you have things that you wish you had done differently?
Eric: That is a hard one to answer. Honestly more than anything I wish I had been a better friend to the people I worked with. I quit Out of the Fridge at the beginning of this year to spend more time with my family. I’ve always put my family first. I come from a broken home where I didn’t feel like my parents were actively involved in our lives. They would miss my choir concerts and my brothers wrestling matches all the time. I swore that for all the mistakes I would make as a parent, my kids would always know I was there for them. Consequently I often feel like that makes me a shit friend. I go long periods of time without checking in with people or hanging out with them. I get so focused on my wife and kids that I kind of put myself i a bubble. It’s probably the biggest thing I beat myself up about.
Quill:  I have the same problem, and it’s led to more than one instance of me putting the needs of my family over the artistic desires I have for both my own podcast and the Quill itself.  I cannot and will not tell you how to live your life, but I do know that at the end of the day, it is your family that you must come home to each night.  I know it can’t have been easy, but I believe prioritizing your family is almost always the correct decision.  Because of your experiences, do you have any advice or hard-earned wisdom to share with others looking to follow you into podcasting or photography?

Eric: With podcasting just be yourself. Choose a topic you love, don’t fake it to do what’s more popular. I stick with a show because I love the hosts. Authenticity goes a long way with me. I often see folks focus so much on the format of their episodes that they’ll cut off an interesting conversation. I think having a loose outline and taking notes is great but keep the conversation lively and interesting most of all.

I feel weird giving people photography advice since its something I taught myself. I think the better thing would be to tell you why I love photography. The world is an often ugly place, now more than ever. For my mental health its imperative that I get outside of my house and sometimes my comfort zone. Photography forces me to see the beauty all around me on a daily basis. From a gorgeous flower in my neighbors yard to my cos-player friends getting that outfit just perfect and everything in between. I love that I can be solitary and just do landscapes or candid street photos. My favorite stuff involves collaborating with models and cos-players. That is where I have to get a little uncomfortable to meet friends and often strangers to work with.

Quill: Thank you for sharing the fact that podcasting is all about enthusiasm.  So many people try to fake what’s popular and burn themselves out.  Self-taught doesn’t always equate to bad, however!  Look at me.  I had no writing experience or other relevant background, and I’ve already shot past so many others who fall along the wayside.  You take fantastic photos, and I know that for people in my position who barely know which end of the camera to hold, you could offer a wealth of advice.

Okay, last question, and it’s a big one.  I know that you’ve never been shy sharing about it, but you survived cancer recently.  I’ve had to deal with that twice myself, once it was a close friend, the other was my mother.  Do you have anything you wish to share about your experience?

Eric: I am a cancer survivor. I got diagnosed with Melanoma several years ago and had to have surgery to remove the tumor. I noticed a small dark mole by my left eye when my oldest daughter was born. Over time it grew and got darker. Eventually it kind of turned into a square shape so I went to my doctor. My doctor initially said that it was an abnormal mole but not cancerous. I asked him to remove it anyways because it just didn’t feel right to me. He relented but sent it to get biopsied so that insurance would pay for it. Of course the results came back positive and he felt pretty bad! I had to have another couple inches of skin removed around the sight. I had an amazing plastic surgeon, Dr. Woodman, that saved my life and kept me from being disfigured. I’ve got some lovely scars on my face now but they’ve faded a lot. When people ask about them I told them I got into a fight with a bear.

Quill:  Thank you for sharing your story Eric.  I know it sounds corny, but I think scars are the most wonderful part of being human.  They show that you’ve been through things, that you’ve endured things which are no more.  They mean that you’ve got a good story to tell as well, and I’m glad I got to share it with an audience.  Have a wonderful day Eric, and thank you for your time.

Teller of tales. Horrible liar. Fair hand at video games and card games.